Below is a list of ways I’ve learnt to fill the gap between where I am and where I want to be.
I refer back to it when I feel the FUD set in. Fear, Uncertainty and Doubt, the buzz killers to us continuing to take steps toward fully embodying our dreams, to do what our unique awesome selves were put on this earth to do.
It can be super challenging to stay on track out there. In a world that pulls us in all different directions, the gap between where you are and where you want to be can fell like its getting wider and wider.
Have a ponder on what’s shared below, designed to highlight what could be holding you back. And if you want to hone in even further and take affirmative action with my support then a Root Cause Session is THE way to go. In the meantime, I hope you find some of these insights helpful especially when you feel FUD beginning to start sprouting up along your otherwise beautifully manicured path..
Audit Your Inner Circle
We are the sum total of the 5 people we hang with. If you’re with your people you won’t need to try to sell them on who are.
Sometimes you outgrow people and partners – some wanna stay on the donkey whilst you wanna jump on the race horse.
Got to be super conscious not to let the FUD* in even when you’re surrounded by it.
Your dream is YOUR dream. Sharing it with another means that they will view it through their life lense. Its like prescription glasses.. great for you to see clearly but if you hand your glasses to another their perspective will be very different despite looking through the same pair of glasses.
Stop asking for permission. Ask for support by all means but you don’t need anyone’s permission to follow your dreams.
Go be you!
Solve Bigger Problems
Don’t look for problems to go away.
Look to get better at handling bigger problems.
When shit goes sideways be the person that says I’ll take it. Don’t be the person that runs, hides and hopes someone else we sort it.
It’s on ME!
Own Your Shit.
When did you realise no one was coming to save you?
If things go bad or good – its on me.
Take uncomfortable action.
Who is is steering my ship?
Who is directing the course of your life – is it you?
Who are you handling the wheel to? Imposter syndrome self doubt – colleagues family partner
When you feel off your hands on are not on the wheel be the captain of your ship / future
Fail on your terms
Create the course you wanna be on
I will meet this day with love.
Every damn day.
Be Bold
Life is going by really fast. Time to be more courageous and not dim your glow.
Focus on the Fix
If blaming others then your not focusing on fix
Dead on the inside – nope!!
Can’t believe it went wrong! Then fix it move on!
Look for the little shifts / things
Small hinges swing a big door
Small thing will change your life
This didn’t pay me quick enough so im giving up
I will persist til I succeed
If I don’t do it I’ll never know what the experience is on the other side fear of not knowing so id rather know!
Don’t go to the end of your life without not knowing
I will persist til I succeed
Who V’s How
The how will drive you nuts! Who has already done what I wanna do?
Help people go faster
I can’t do it how do I do it then someone does it Dean’d son setting him up on TikTok
Condense decades into days..
At Danielle Rickwood Wellbeing we’ve done all the hard work for you to help you get to where you want to be. If you’re new to us you can book a FREE Clarity Call. On this call we’ll get clear on where you want to go and which experience will help you get there faster!